Heres a v serious topic
My friend got nikkahfied last summers.she didnt like the guy but she was 25 so her mom was in haste .she got her married n she was ok cuz she had to marry somdone n most of the rishtas tht came,she didnt like so she went ahead
After nikah,she tried to be attached to him .he wento jeddah after nikkah.so they talkd but she still thought hes immature .now after a year .like 4 months ago she met someone whose actually her type .n she wants to b with tht guy.he also likes her but now nothings in her favour…she talked to her mom dad n stuff n they wento get rukhsaty dates set for her out of fear tht shes going crazy n we need to rukhsat her.she told the husband too tht i donf wanto get maried to u n just leave me but he thinks shes just nervous
She's got loose morals to have gotten involved with someone else while she's married to another guy. And who's to say she won't do it again and who's to say that her boyfriend will ever fully trust her. After all, if she can leave her husband for the boyfriend, then she could do the same thing again.
Mind you given the example of her character, I think her husband would probably be better off without her. He should divorce her.
She does know that she's married to this guy and not just engaged right? :/ That is her husband she's been cheating on. Nikkahfied=You guys are married now, should've thought about it before saying Qubool hai.
If she was 16 17 when she got nikahfied..i might have understood a little..but she was 25..!! That is old enough to tell your parents you disagree with a nikkah ..and old enough to have morals and not deceive another person who happen to legally be her husband.
Agree with Sehrysh that her husband would probably be better off without her and this reminds me of Mezghan's thread the other day about thinking things thru BEFORE you marry.. What a mess..
Dontcha know, morals and values and fidelity don’t matter when you’re in loooooooooooooooooove. SHes a modern day Juliet and the world is a cruel place for denying her, her one-true love.
She should sent inappropriate pictures with her boyfriend to her husband. Who will then believe that she is serious. He will divorce her. She can marry the boyfriend guy. All sorted.
Goodgirl: Why is your friend going crazy? She didn't need or ask her parents or husband's permission before she started getting to know this other guy. And now that she wants to marry her BF....she does not need her parents/husband's permission to file for divorce. So if she wants to be out of this marriage....tell her to go and start divorce proceedings.
Down the road when the guy meet/marries a woman who actually likes him and is capable of being faithful....he will be grateful to your friend for not ruining his life.
Agree with Sehrysh that her husband would probably be better off without her and this reminds me of Mezghan's thread the other day about thinking things thru BEFORE you marry.. What a mess..
I know you are saying this for the girl, but if you look at it from the husband's point of view. He probably did think it through, expecting the girl to be loyal. Fact is, people change. There is no way you can think of all the ways a marriage could go wrong before you marry.
She's got loose morals to have gotten involved with someone else while she's married to another guy. And who's to say she won't do it again and who's to say that her boyfriend will ever fully trust her. After all, if she can leave her husband for the boyfriend, then she could do the same thing again.
Mind you given the example of her character, I think her husband would probably be better off without her. He should divorce her.
Ok, I wouldn't go as far as saying she has loose morals. That doesn't sound right. It's not like she slept with the husband and the guy she just fell for. She was never committed as clearly said in the OP. She tried but the guy left for Jeddah! He should have stayed so they got to know each other better! People do stupid stuff all the time under pressure.
No, it is not. But if you don’t like someone then don’t act dumb and speak up. It is not fun when girls ruin another person’s life because they didn’t like anyone and it was time to get married so she got nikkahfied. Two months later she meets her Mr. Perfect.
Guys .thats xactly wat she says abt it all tht ppl ll say this abt her n here we go.everyone just said tht...she knows she made a blunder but now she wants to get out of this situation n not marry tht guy cuz she knws its unfair .she had nvr been close to her hubby .talkd after 2-3 days gap n tht too only hello hi.
Ok, I wouldn't go as far as saying she has loose morals. That doesn't sound right. It's not like she slept with the husband and the guy she just fell for. She was never committed as clearly said in the OP. She tried but the guy left for Jeddah! He should have stayed so they got to know each other better! People do stupid stuff all the time under pressure.
She was talking to him on the phone that should be good enough to get to know him. Saath Beth k kya karna hae? U'll get to know him better?
She was talking to him on the phone that should be good enough to get to know him. Saath Beth k kya karna hae? U'll get to know him better?
So you are telling me you have never done something stupid under pressure? Sure, the girl didn't realize how serious the consequences would be but to me she seems sincere and has told the guy flat out that she doesn't want to be with him. What else can she do? And yes, being in the country would have been helpful. Woh kehte hain na, aankh ojhal pahaar ojhal..
