Thats a gross generalization and quite demeaning remarks towards guys. If a girl marries a guy cuz he’s a doc, or has a nice stable job, or that she wanna come live abroad then its perfectly alright, but God forbid if a guy wants to do that, then he’s jerk. I think this is serious bias in the light of the hypothesis of equality.
I think cases differ and one should not be painting everyone with the same brush. I think between the typical controlling male in pakistan, and the extremely liberal pro-west desi females living abroad, there are other shades that exist as well.