SIL from pakistan

[anya]

@Red_Ruby

what iv noticed is that when we’re alone, us 3 SIL, their personalities come thru, one is snide but quiet, and the other is chatty and snide. no joke, but thats how they are. and i bear their nasty comments…another story

but when theyre infront of the inlaws and their hubbys they act like their mouth is glued shut. they act sooooooo gentle and innocent that they have trouble lifting their eyes and when they reply u can barely hear them.

what is this all about?

wow I have seen this sooo often, ‘aagay kuch, peechay kuch’ you cant believe its the same person…such hypocrites

I understand your issue 'coz I cant act this two way either. Since these SIL are a team, & seem more ‘chalaak’ than you, you cant win. Dont say anything bad about the inlaws even when you guys are alone coz you cant trust them. Just be yourself & dont worry too much about your MIL. If she doesnt recognize a true person then its her loss.