Rani.
You have definitely missed the subtance of what I had posted.
Whether it be Shiva, Allah, or anyone. One thing Guru Nanak states is.
God is ONE
,he is still ONE regardless of what NAME you call him. He is the NAME in essence. It is a fact that in Sikhism, you can call him Allah, Shiva, Ram anything. Because, what you are still doing in meditation/prayer is you're referring to God (Wahe-Guru in Sikh terms), and Him as being an individual (ONE). There is no way, Guru Gobind Singh directly prayed to Shiva of Hinduism. And please, a word of caution never mention such a statement to a religious strict Sikh because they will not respond lightly.
Think of it this way. How many Sikh's call God actually God during prayer? Not any that I know, since He is referred to Wahe-Guru. Therefore, if Sikhs say they pray to GOD (in english context), does that mean they pray to the Christian God? (since the word God is used more often in Christianity). I hope you understand the point I am trying to make.
In addition, it is unfortunate that Sikh's are being considered a sect of Hinduism. Sikh's are also being considered a sect of Islam as Sufi-Islam (Sikhism). Whatever that means, I don't know, I will leave that for my muslim comrads to answer.
Futhurmore, Sikh-Hindu marriages are more frequent to the exact point ChannMahi referred to. In both our religions, we don't have defined conversions or contraints in the marriage ceremony, and the inter-faith marriages that are occuring are of abroad generations, the children born of the western countries (usually). It's bad enough to really get married out of caste (a contradiction in Sikhism, only being carried out by social/custom traditions due to Hindu influence), nevertheless get married to a Hindu or a Muslim.
I will agree with you that, Sikh's and Hindu's have shared the same soil in the sense that we were the only ones that were NOT CONVERTED by Arabs/Persians. It is a fact that, the Indians that did not forcibly convert, converted on the basis that Islam is like an ideal religion for those of lower castes (because at that time it provided a better sense of equality than of their current religion Hinduism.)
However, Muslims, Hindu's and Sikh's have shared the same soil all-together. Over half of Indian Punjab's villages are of Islamic names. My village in Punjab is called Husseinpur, it is an obvious indication that Muslims once lived there. We have to remember, Indian muslims in particular are NOT ancestors of the Arabs or Persians, but the CONVERTEE'S (if you may) of Islam. (direct proof, darker complexion muslims are obvious) They were once Hindu before, and that simply can not be denied.
Final point is. Sikhism has clear definitions of being a opposite and contrast religion from Hinduism, therefore it has no basis in being a sect of Hinduism, just for sharing the philosophy of reincarnation. (That is like saying Islam is the offspring off Christianity, because they believe in Heaven and Hell, even Zoorastrianism has a similar faith in that (the dark, and the light, good outweighing evil., etc, yet it has nothing to do with those religions.
It's time for Hindu's accept that, no matter how much they want to believe Sikh's are Hindu's, Sikh's simply are not!
- No Sikh would argue with me on that, only Non-Sikhs would argue to that -
Arai