lies are the first and foremost alert.
what else?
share if you like.
best,
Dushwari
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Yeah, lying is the first one but sometimes you only find out about the lies when its too late.
- story changes often
- Telling you one thing but doing something else
- what they say doesn't add up to what they have told you before
- if you ask them questions about their story, they get mad and put up useless arguments to avoid the discussion.
- they do everything possible to avoid and ignore the real issue and questions that come up when their story doesn't match to what you might find out about 'em.
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…sustained eye contact? Dushwari, i ain’t never had a blind girl accidentally bump into me, lie blatently through her teeth & then ask… “so, where you from”…things must be different where i’m from i guess.
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sustained eye contact of what kind?
evaluative or indecent?
are ethics of approaching a person in case of men, different than for women?
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they do this > 
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you’re so very different then all the girls i have met so far:halo:
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thats a very bad flirt, a good player does not lie..because its easy to get caught defending a lie.
best players are upfront in everything, except for one thing, i.e. their intention. and since theya re hones about everything else..there is no reason for ppl to doubt their intentions.
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thats a very bad flirt, a good player does not lie..because its easy to get caught defending a lie.
*** best players are upfront in everything, except for one thing, i.e. their intention.*** and since theya re hones about everything else..there is no reason for ppl to doubt their intentions.
LOL! good one
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I am a reformed one...so can speak from experience :)
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i have seen when gals (some of my friends) do it, it scares the hell out of guys. :D
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what kinda girlie men do you folks hang out with?
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^ LOL!
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Never cheated any one in my life.
Girls,some times, did have one sided feeling for me. Never ever ever took advantage of it. NEVER.
Can not hurt them.
All non serious relations I had with girls who clearly knew what we were up to.
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hw can actually ppl live wid dese non serious fake relations...either dey jst ignore dis fact or dey dnt wnna thnk abt it
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:sheyn:
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hw can actually ppl live wid dese non serious fake relations...either dey jst ignore dis fact or dey dnt wnna thnk abt it
you know what, when you are an 18, 19, 20 year old...you cant necessarily commit to a serious relationship, in most cases 'serious' relationships that start at young ages dont go anywhere anyways, so why get emotionally vested in something at an age when one has to take care of their future..education, career and what nots. In my view 'non serious fake relations' and 'serious relations' dont have a whole lot of diff in terms of outcome. so why get involved.
Now if a fling is what someone is lookign for and a fling is what someone else is looking for and they hook up, then moral/religious/cultural norms not withstanding, why is it a issue.
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well u can say to sum 18 19 20 years old girl..if she is not commited or nt into any serious relationship...i have seen a few relationships which strted from quite an early age and dey initially gt married....in my case i knw my fiance nly from last 8 months or so..and am already gttng married to him in august dis year...so i guess u cant put everyone in da same boat!!
now i think dese relations do have a diffrnt outcum....if u mke dese relations or a person in ur life..ur aim just like e.g. ur aim is to be a doctor in future..u can achieve a lot..but if ur nt serious wid dese thngs from da very beginning..its nt gng to tke u anywhere...so it does mke a difference.....and yes u dnt need to gt involved...
it depends ..and its nt a question of sumthng u like or dislike...dese thngs jst happen!
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so i guess u cant put everyone in da same boat!!
sure .. that is why I used a specific word that I will highlight this time
in most cases 'serious' relationships that start at young ages dont go anywhere anyways,
now i think dese relations do have a diffrnt outcum....if u mke dese relations or a person in ur life..ur aim just like e.g. ur aim is to be a doctor in future..u can achieve a lot..but if ur nt serious wid dese thngs from da very beginning..its nt gng to tke u anywhere...so it does mke a difference.....and yes u dnt need to gt involved... it depends ..and its nt a question of sumthng u like or dislike...dese thngs jst happen!
The vast majority of 18-19 year olds can not establish, maintain and finalize some relationshi even with the best of intentions. its not just about intentions, it is also about ability, and most ppl in that age group can not take relationships anywhere and that is why you dont see too many ppl marryiong someone they liked in highschool.
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^ You're 100 % right.....i wud never say that high school sweethearts have a chance of working out BUT i've also seen a few couples..that do. (if by working out = they get married)... but i'd say they're exceptiosn and not the actual rules.
