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Dil-di-rani
What was so wrong in saying 'guys who have had thier fun' here?
whats so hypocritical in my post?
By 'fun' i mean guys who have been physically involved pre-maritally
I was just trying to be honest. A lot of guys do that, i have u.k male friends and ex's of female friends that r doing it.
And i was just repeating opinions what other peple say abut western-desi gals not my own.
Gosh...
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Amir:) I was talking in a general sense and not relating it specifically to you. Sorry if you took it personally.
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The first part which I have highlighted is another thing which annoys me. Hypocritical people. They want their cake and eat it. Same applies to women and men these days,
Girls from here, are not all like that. If you want someone who does not talk back/back chat, you are better off with a dummy. On a serious note, you get bad and good in any given environment. Just make sure you find someone who you get on well with. Everything else is all relative.
No its not!!
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Dil-di-rani
And i was just repeating opinions what other peple say abut western-desi gals not my own.
Gosh...
u are such a girl.
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noname:
I so especially agree with u on the last one:
But sorry for the harshness:
But u hypocritcal girl do also ava part toplay in this.
So many times i see girls slagging guys off as 'butters', fat black, nasty whatver. But most of the time your own husbnds or bf.s that u love so much turn out to b like that? And im talkin abut western desi girls too, who have no force to accept anyone.
and dis is not frm my personal experince (Im not saying im gd or bad looking..nor i am in a relationship)
So why complain babes...when u know thats what u like/get or love .. whatver
i used to think same abt my friends how they live with fat,short,bald etc husbands.now i understand that when u hav no emotional attachment wit a person these flaws r big issues but after marriage if u click these things go in the background n become meaningless
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they check the girl out as if they are gonna sit her on the mantelpiece as if she were a trophy.... do din ka banana sawarna and then she has a permanent apron attached to her..
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Oh Rite.
Mabook illcorrect u for a second.
For us guys this isa very big issue. Infcat the first issue. U wud not get our proposal if we didnt fancy u.
I dont kno how girls seem to let be deprived of the same right.
U said it becomes meanlingless.
Or being honest, do u think, Maybe its more of somthing that does matter but as it cudnt be changed women eventually resort to such excuses in order to get over it?
Or else then it also means, that if i am a really ugly person it doesnt matter if i go out and try to pull the most beautful chick i can find?
What do u say, is that fair? haan
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The guys marrying girls abroad thing I totally get Tbh, I mean I’m British born and raised and think my parents have done an excellent job of educating me and my brothers about our religion and culture and I think exactly like them, hell most people would say I’m pretty backward minded. But for every decent British born Muslim, there are 6 British born ‘Muslim’ slags. The stories I hear about girls around me are horrific, you log into face book and you look at pictures of them on nights out wearing what even some goray would be ashamed of wearing, and all along their parents know NOTHING. They give their kids freedom, and the kids not only take advantage but do every possible thing that is against our religion. When my mum got my oldest brother married she went straight to Pakistan because she knows what girls are like here, NOT ALL GIRLS, but A LOT of them. I mean I know a lot of girls who are very religious, and have been brought up very very well, anyone would be proud to have them in their life but the bad girls over shadow people like this. Parents just want what’s best for their kids, and I know that Pakistan is not too far behind with the ‘bad’ culture, everything that happens here happens there too but I don’t think it is as frequent or as serious. There are a lot more restrictions there compared to here, kids can get away with a lot worse in countries such as England and America.
It’s the same story with girls getting married to guys over there, guys here are as bad as the girls. Again not ALL of them are bad, but a majority are. Sex & alcohol are common amongst them, but when it comes to marriage they want someone whose pure hence they head back home. It’s the same with the girls, I want to marry someone who has lived a similar life as me, and in pak that would be easier. Again I’m not slating all men, a lot of guys here are good people too, I can use my brothers as examples, not blowing my own horn or anything but my parents Alhamdulillah have raised a pair of angels, and they’re obedient and put their family first. My mum from a young age has told us we’re having arranged marriages so we never even needed to enter the ‘dating game’ cause when the time is right inshallah they will find us someone suitable. My oldest brother has been married 5 years now, he got engaged without meeting the girl properly. That’s the kind of trust that is needed between parents and children. But not all guys are like that, they’ll do everything before marriage, they’ll date the said girls above, have their fun and when it comes to marriage they want a ‘pure’ girl. But why should she have to settle with someone’s sloppy seconds? That’s why they head to Pak. Not all marriages end the way you’ve said, that’s just the ones we hear about, the horror stories, a lot of people are happily married.
Then the girls coming from abroad being treat like slaves, again we only hear the negative stories, always the bad stories. Its not that common, a lot of girls, actually most of them mashalla live happily ever after, unfortunately some do get treat badly but the same can happen anywhere.
The aunties scanning, yeah that is out of line but then you just contradicted yourself with your last statement. The whole look thing works both ways, a the reason ‘unattractive men’ get the pretty girls is because they’re the ones who will treat them right because they’ll appreciate that beauty. My brother by no means is attractive, and my bhabi is STUNNING. It worked because she was willing to compromise the looks for a good man, Id rather marry and ugly man with agood personality than a fit man who will not treat me right.
Okay so I’ve generalised a lot in that post and feel I might piss a few people off so I apologize in advance!
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dont get bitter. get thin :k:
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Ok, we need more ice cream here!
Fat free for some :-p
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no haagen daaz please....have the real stuff not the fat free crap
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The ugly man appreciating a beautiful woimens bauty.
Ofcurse for him shes super-special... he cant get anyone else better...so its the biggest sucess in his life...he'll obvoisly need to value it most.
Ok then looks like its determined girls do infact goes for the uglyier guys.
and what girls think is thier 'confidence' despite thier uglyness is actually more thier 'besharamness' of looks. Its thier selfishness still going for u despite knowing someone like u deserves better.
OK then. Hey then heres one for grabs.
anybodie interested........:) : )
im black fat, and ugly. But id love my wife like anything, i swear. Is anybody wiling to give me a chance
Plss some beautful girl pm me i promise im really poilte, kind, vvv.caring, inteligent, brit.nationality too.
im serious. i want to get married
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Seriously.
If i can get married (who is not tall, slim, stunning/attractive, charming, blah blah), then it really shouldnt' be hard for other girls...who are.
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you forgot fair skinned. She has to be fair skinned! lol sorry guys, couldnt help it
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Girls one step solution. Men sux. Don’t marry them. :k:
Problem solved.
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^ Mate are you advocating lesbianism here? Not that I am against it, but definitely not all women should resort to that.
Thread starter: Save yourself the trouble, marry a gora.
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Jaanaar is back
yehee
we were missing your reality-check giving posts.
The man summarises a thread in 3 lines for gods sake.
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Not all men are bad
Not all women are evil
It just depends how you deal and look at people based on your experiences. Its not much of a issue as everyone makes it look like.
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NoName, why r u ranting when you haven't even entered the arena yet???