Funy its really nice of you to think that way, and as I find you are wise enough then I expect you to understand this too that every person holds an individual nature. I cant be you, you cant be she? Things/matters that seem minor to me, may seem major to you and vice versa.
But its unfair of calling someone materialistic if he/she is so concerned about her belongings.
You said, YOU ASKED ALL your near ones what they like… you said, YOU kept the things unlocked so that they can use, so, how would you feel if they take away your things without your permission? or baat bay baat p cheezen mangtay?? how would you feel if you left your sandooqs locked and would find them unlocked and used roughly? dear kehne ke baat aur hoti hay aur jab guzarti hay to aur…