So I am here in Pak on vacations for 2 months and ofcourse living with my inlaws. Its only my MIL, FIL, BIL and his wife here… and I am sick of “his wife”'s dual personality.
How can be someone such a live chalta phirta Star Plus ka drama. She has created issues and dramas in past too before when I had to live for one and a half year away from my husband.
When I was in UK, she used to talk to me over skype mentioning how much she misses me and how much she feels embarrassment for what we had gone through in past and continuously kept promising that we wont let misconceptions occur again and all that BULL$–T stuff. Guess, she is good at maintaining a relationship especially when someone lives abroad.. (Some of our inlaws relatives also live in Canada, UK, Australia) and I always noticed that she acted really polite and happens to be the REALLY NICE LADY ON EARTH when they were on visit to Pakistan. (I am sorry, but I need to be true, she is one illetrate low mentality, clever and very sharp lady).
I spent few days very peacefully but she seems to be troubling again. NO, dont get it wrong… she never troubles upfront… she builds webs like a spider and one comes to know when its too late… or atleast… when the issue comes up publically..
She used to speak to her family back in Saudia when I was in UK and she used my Desktop PC. When I have come here, I brought my Laptop along so I dont need to use the desktop PC, unless I am not using Laptop just in any case (which has not happened yet). But one day I was checking my Desktop PC and found the corrupted windows was installed and the PC was full of viruses so I told everybody that I need to re-install the windows and all that stuff. I tried doing it but it shows the hardware problem and I spoke to my nandoi to come and get it resolved as he is an IT man but he is so busy and couldnt make it uptil now. (Thats another story).
So this day, when I spoke to my husband he told me that his brother called him up and said, the PC is not working, iska kiya karna hay? and that in the absence of your wife, my wife is now addicted to speak to her family in Saudia and my son used to play with the PC and now nothing can be happened.. what can I do? and my hubby asked him to repair the PC and take it to his room… when my husband told me what he suggested to him, I simply couldnt bear because I cant allow things moving from my room…specially things that belong to me, things I have good memories with and especially when I know how my PC will be misused as her son is ONE BIG BADTAMEEZ TAREEN BACHA… I just cant tell how badtameez he is… he calls everyone TUM, he fights, he screams, he has ego at the age of 4, he never says sorry and often call names!! AND more importantly, his mother encourages him!! (for which I am sure she will have to pay in future and thats one more another story)!!
So, I told my hubby to call him back and ask him not to move anything and that I have no problem if she comes in my room and uses it.
OK, now you will think whats dual about that??
The thing is, She kept on saying from the day I arrived back to Pak, “hum nahin larengy, hum misconception ka shikar nhin hongay, wo nadaniyan thien jo past main hueen, jo baat hogi samnay samnay kahengy.. baat ka bura nahi manayengy…shuker hay hum bughaz nahin rakhte blah blah blah” and on the other hand, she fed her husband with all that stuff that how I am not allowing her to enter in my room to use PC and making lame excuses over PC damaged/ hardware problems!! I can say she is feeding him because I know her husband really well that he will never stand or fight for things like if she is speaking to her family or not! he never cares for that. He doesn’t care. (dont ask me how do I know, I have spent my years in this family and there are proofs which are not important to be discussed here).
I got hurt knowing all this, because several times she asked me that I want to speak to my bro in Saudia and I offered her my Laptop too…where she spoke to them for hours and SERIOUSLY I had NO ISSUE at all because I know PC wasnt working well and I care about my family’s privacy and God knows how much have I been asking to my nandoi to come over and fix it.
You tell me, is it normal to have such one character in every home?
I am not at all mad at her, neither naraz, I am speaking to her just the way I do except that now I have maintained a distance and ready to face any worst issue she can bring on!
