Sick of her Dual Personality!

[queen_24]

Re: Sick of her Dual Personality!

@Wehshi_Jatt

OMG, what if she is not the problem… you are? emmy:

@chips6

omg…grow up…!!!

^thanks both of you for understanding!!

@funy

Hey Queen, I can understand that after your illness you are going through a difficult time but after reading ur lengthy posts I think I shouldnt say anything more because the things u r doing or saying in the given circumstances I completely disagree with. lastly I want to say** that "economics" is the main reason of tensions** in the family and also between the families. If others r not behaving or doing up to ur expectations, its never bad to review your own conduct also and adjust here and there a bit. You r not there to fight a battle where egos runs high and crush each other. Better to look for a middle ground which can harvest harmony and peace and for it sometimes we have to sacrifice a lot of material things. But believe me its worth it.

we are financially very strong! its not about economics but AADATEN! I try my level best to adjust, there was a time when I stayed quiet never complaint or behaved the way they did, but a kisi bhi insaan ki bardasht ki koi hadd to hoti hay yaar!! KOI HADD?? Its not about ego, its about letting her not rule every single thing that she wants too… believe me, she is kind of a woman, if not stopped now, will stop never!

Thanks for the concern though and I totally understand your point of view, and I would do accordingly if I were unaware of people around me…and if it was happening in initial stages (as I did when I was new) but ab its time to react I guess and to make her mind that she needs to be more concerned about her family, kids, husband and future than actually troubling with us. I am not here to bear such a crap once again in my life! I have really gone through a real tough time!

and in such a time when I know, I would not make my husband worried and wont tell my mother, I love to speak to you people… it reliefs me!