Re: Sick of her Dual Personality!
nice question.
When I was here in Pak permanently, we used to work alternatively. One day she… one day me, and its what she asked me when I was newly married. It included all cooking and washing dishes stuff. For rest of the work, we have maids to do.
Now when I am back and since they know too that I have come up to get rest (recovering from my abortion), she asked me initially being super helpful and efficient that you dont need to work, I will do everything and since you are here on visit, you must rest. She assured me she was ok but still I helped her with whateva I could.
Soon after the incident (of PC), I realized I shouldn’t trust her and should start the work as it should be done so I spoke to her, bhabhi I guess I shall now takeover my responsibilities and lets do it the way we used to do like one day you and one day me… she said ok at that time because her husband was also sitting there watching tv. Later when I was alone she asked me why I took such a decision and that she was having no problem doing my work… but I said, I guess, its good to be going that way, so you will get an alternate day relief and I can rest too… because I cant be there every day in kitchen due to my condition (prolong sitting/ standing is killing me these day) but she said, to tumhe kaam kernay ko keh kaun raha hay, tum rest karo… I said, soch lein because I am telling you already that I cant be there the every other day and she said, aray nahin bhaaee, tumse pehle bhi to main kerleti thi naa… and last night you imagine what she did? she came to me and ask me k suno aaj tum roti paka do jab ke shaam me hi I told her that I was having severe backache and discussed with her some women problem which I cant discuss here and she didnt bother to ask me for the favor instead asked for help infront of my MIL, so that I say NO, and my MIL see that how I am not working and she is working too ooooo much…
Later after the dinner, I could feel my MIL’s cold behavior too and she has been pushing me to work this and that where every single second they know what I am going through and this evening I have almost fall on the floor due to slightly fainting and broke my cup of tea… and guess what, my hubby called a while ago, I didnt tell him anything, then I asked that he should speak to his mother as my MIL wasnt feeling well two to three days ago so I made him speak to her and my MIL thought maybe I complaint to him so wo kehtay hain naa chor ki daarhi main tinka, after saying hello she started saying, tumhari biwi to kuch khati nahin, nashta nahin kerti… ye nahin khati, boti nahin khati, she thought mene sham ka incident batadiya hoga hubby ko and then main nain unhe ishara kiya ke please hubby ko nahin pata and jab jakay wo chup hoeen!! 