Sick of her Dual Personality!

[queen_24]

Re: Sick of her Dual Personality!

@Peony

Regardless of who is right, or wrong. This is a valid point. Your Jaithani will make your hubby buy her a laptop. Just try to keep out of those people’s hair. Be sweet, polite, give her the crap desktop and be done with it. Some women have a big hold on their Brother-in-Laws and regardless of how sensible your hubby is, he’s going to give them more than you’ll be happy with so you decide and take control of the situation. It’s either, you give them some crap now or let her cajole a new laptop out of your husband.

If you have moved to UK permanantly, then it is no longer your room. If you want to be stubborn about it, you’re the one who will suffer. If I were you, I’d take all my stuff and keep it at my parents’ house. I would treat the in-laws house as someone else’s house. You’re just asking to be messed with if you’re keeping your things there knowing fulling well of their nature.

I know my hubby will never do that he knows this girl very well than me!! so I am 1000 percent sure, this is never gonna happen!
She has no big hold now on BIL because everyone in the family knows the type of woman she is, (and even knowing about it, my inlaws would never come in between when we two are in argument because thats what they like to see).. !! and because they are illiterate too, they like to do such chatpati gossips, back stabbing etc… they know when I am with them, I talk mostly things out of the circle, current affairs, my profession, Showbiz, hollywood bollywood… etc and they love to stick to the typical topics… which I hate!

No, although I have a multiple visa for long stay, I am not permanently settled in UK, I will have to keep making trips every now and then…

My hubby will never EVER like me transferring my belongings to my mom’s place.. So I wont do that!

I would definitely treat such people very sweetly, the problem is, they are the kind of people, for whom it has been said, gardan bhi kaat ke rakhdo to khush nahin hongay!!