Sick of her Dual Personality!

[queen_24]

Re: Sick of her Dual Personality!

@pkgrl000

Aren’t you being a tiny bit selfish in this situation? You have a laptop for your own personal use and you yourself said you don’t use the PC.
If you know how SIL used it to talk to her family and her son uses it, just stop making a big fuss and give it to her to keep in her room!

You are being a child by:
a. requiring that she talk to her parents in saudi only in your room. what if she has private stuff to discuss? would you like being restricted in such a way that all your convos with your parents must take place in front of someone else?

b. making your husband reverse his decision with his brother where he allowed him to just take the PC to his room and get it fixed. Essentially this should have made you happy as PC is now the brother’s headache. This is not your permanent residence, so who cares if “your stuff” (which you don’t use as you have a laptop) is removed from “your room” (i’m guessing this is the guest room since you don’t really live in the household).

You say she keeps requesting things from abroad for herself and kids. Well guess what, now YOU are creating a situation where next thing she will ask for is a new laptop from you guys and she will be justified in doing so because you are making it difficult for them to get PC fixed and use it.

I assure you whateva you are guessing is wrong! First of all no, thats MY ROOM, not a guest room. I have lived here almost 3 years of my marriage before getting to UK & every single thing belongs to Me in this room.

Second! The PC belongs to me, and it should be my choice whether to give it away or NOT!
Third! If you were reading my other posts in the same thread, you wouldnt need to write a detail reply because I have already mentioned that the problem is not giving away my belonging but the one to one issues she creates (and has been creating since I stepped in this house).

4th! whateva I do, still she has NO RIGHT to ask for a laptop from my hubby as she has her own husband and she should ask for important things from her hubby than mine… its her husband’s responsibility to provide her with the things she need, not my husband’s responsibility!

5th! Moving away my things made me mad due to several reasons and one of them was, when I came back to my room, I could clearly see, how my room was misused. My Nand once called my hubby in the beginning of when I settled abroad saying, your wife has locked her closets and trolly and thats not good (and I did it because my personal stuff was in there and after all it was my room and I have full right to take care of my things), she also added, did she think we will touch her personal stuff and blah blah.. but because my hubby is a sensible man, he handled the situation very wisely and on the other hand when I came back (because my italian divider didnt have locks and I left it unlocked) my divider was used so badly. My MIL has her showcase of her dowry which is almost shaheed and a tang toota… it was cleaned and all that old stuff like plastic plates of her era, steel tanba bartan of her time from her showcase was transferred in my divider… is it the way should be? The walls of my room were kicked by their kids and I literally washed them.

Her primary motive is to just let me be down while making me annoyed and talking rubbish about me! Not taking the PC!!

…and OMG, you gave me such tension, girl!!