Sick and tired of my husband cheating

[Shareen123]

Re: Sick and tired of my husband cheating

@Sasha21

Don’t know if this was answered in the thread but the previous two times were u 100% sure that he had cheated or was it a strong hunch. I think one of the times was when he actually wanted to take a second wife so I guess that was an admitted affair. Do u know if it was emotional/physical. Would u be ok with either? And which one do u think was it this time.

The first time I checked his statement and the calls lasted for 1 hour every evening so called it and it was his work fellow from work she told me he did wanted more than friendship but she rejected him and when I asked him he said she was in trouble with her in laws so I was just helping her and I said how by chatting to her for hours. So I know he didn’t slept with her but she was just passing time with him. Even then he was saying he loves me and he would never cheat on me. And the second time was after 5 years same thing with his work mate she was here on work permit and she was a Sikh so he was saying let me marry her she will become a muslim and you will get rewarded I said what the hell first you read your namaz and be a proper muslim first. That’s when I decided to leave him and ask for devorce and he stayed at his brother house for a night so he begged me to take him back and he would never betray me and with family pressure they told me to give him a chance.
And even now my own sister is putting pictures in my head she saying ok if you leave him how would you feel if he gets married again and start a new life with kids and you will be stuck with troubles teenagers and miserable life.