Sick and tired of my husband cheating

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Re: Sick and tired of my husband cheating

@SaadiaB

Let me ask you, ARE YOU MARRIED ? what you wrote, looks good on the paper but it doesnt work in real life. How can she blind trust a man with a history like this. You trust there, where u know ur partner is faithful, where as he has shown in the past, he gets attracted to other females. No one asking to keep tabs but all females keep their eyes open for signs, its natural. But she cannot leave him on basis of “saqh” she needs solid proof that he is actually being unfaithful other than just flirting here or there, which is bad inself.

What does me being married have to do with anything Saadia? I’m simply stating my opinion, and also do I need to be married to say something that married members here have agreed with (by the likes received)? Let’s not forget that idiots aren’t exempt from marriage either, case in point the OP’s husband. Like I said before, whilst she doesn’t know the extent of his infidelity.. there is still issues with him being intimate and flirting around with other women. Something that she should nip in the bud if she wants any chance of saving this marriage. Now if he doesn’t want to try, and keeps shutting his phone for days when she DOES want to talk about it.. then what does that say about their ability to communicate and sort this out? Not much, that’s for sure. I’m not saying she should trust him blindly, but to work on it and regain that trust. Again, if he doesn’t want to.. then there is little chance of reconciling in the long run.

As for thinking of the kids, sometimes keeping the kids in mind and separating can be better than trying to stay together and causing misery for everyone. Kids aren’t stupid, they’ll eventually pick up on the fact that their parents’ relationship is somewhat hostile.