After marriage, how many of you have been able to keep in touch with siblings and talk on a daily basis? Has your relationship been affected by marriage and the distance that comes with it? How so?
And how do you keep that relationship as strong as it was pre-marriage and while you were all living under the same roof?
Those that are married and have single siblings that live with the parents, do you ever feel left out?
well my sister got married a year ago, and she sometimes feels a little left out, but we talk all the time. And her biggest thing is that she is unable to be there as a big sister, which is clearly not true, but i guess she can’t help it. i love her soooo much though, this one is for you baji !!!
I recently got married and dont have any siblings but really wish I had ! but I am in touch with my cousins more than i was b4 marriage and they too have became more concerned and caring towards me. You shd keep in touch with ur siblings they can be your bestest friend !
I have two married sisters and I talk to at least one of them everyday. One of them has a child and Im really attached to her so I call everyday...sometimes twice a day to hear new sentences or words she is learning. I love her so much!
I guess it takes effort on both sides but its usually one person who keeps everyone together. :)
I have a sister and we talk at least once or twice a week. She's back home. No our relationship hasn't been affected. Priorities do change and if we are both mature enough, we will understand that.
I talk to my sister everyday - there was some distance when I got married because our lives were so different but since she is also married we usually "bi**ch about" housework, work - well any type of work everyday.
We both stalk my little brother on facebook everyday so we which "nangi pattangi" is after him this week
It takes effort but I think everyone should make time for their relationships esp with siblings.
Love, love, love my sister and her baby. Yeah we speak every other day if not everyday. I think her marriage brought us closer because now she isn’t with us 24/7, you appreciate her more. Btw, she lives 15 min away and yeah we still beg her to stay over every weekend. :hinna:
My relation with sister has grown better after we got married..maybe because we dont have to fight over things like cosmetics,clothes,etc now and have our own big share:D She is not well right now and I am spending night at the hospital with her :teary: hope she gets well soon InshaAllah
my bond with my sisters hasnt changed a lot after marriage, and i guess its because we had very close and good relationship before we both got married. so little one feels out of place sometime as we have similar married life in contrast to her. in hours of crises we found that number of times that no one else is there apart from 3 of us and our parents! my sisters are like my brothers and friends as well. we do have our differences sometime but that doesnt harm that much.
we speak daily or at least twice a week.