Re: showing feelings in Pakistan
You said yourself that they are not haji. GO back and read your post or did you suddenly get amnesia ? ANd now you are conveniently saying that they went hajj a million times. So by that logic you are implying that only haji people dont hold hands in front of family members. Its by deductive logic not by assumption.
I never spoke about the girl going to her parents house every weekend. The person added that later. I am only talking about that if the mil said it is not appropriate for the couple to hold hands in front of his family then that is the norm in all pakistani households. It is not considered respectful. I have never heard of this in any pakistani household nor have ever been to a pakistani household where the parents are holding hands in front of family members or any other pakistanis for that matter. Nobody is following the couple outside where they can hold hands where they are alone or following them in their room. It is not appropriate in front of parent and bros and sis and other family. Outside of family nobody is discussing here.
And I never attacked your parents I was laughing at the absurdity of your argument concerning why it is okay for a supposedly religious couple , the women who is wearing hijab to hold hands in front of family members . You don’t lie people bringing in your family or significant people in your life into argument s then don’t do it to them which you have done to me repeatedly in other thread. What you give is what you get. If you can’t take it then don’t dish it out. ANd STop bringing dinosaurs and Ming synasty into the argument to pretend like you are very cool and nobody can out argue you. IT is about shame and respect none of which you have. It doesn’t matter how you argue you calling an elderly woman ‘buddhi’ is disrespectful any which way you look at it.