Just make sure the third partner in the threesome is halal :D Not that it matters much. I just never got how this threesome works. I mean doesnt the third person get bore (when the other two are making love) and does the third person mind doing it with same sex. Hmm???
Do you think, given the high rates of cheating (as evidenced by the 8 ways to affair proof your mariage) in a marriage, that we, as a society, should begin to think of threesomes as a viable option in order to keep the spark in the marriage.
What are the pros and cons ? your opinions? your thoughts?
Do you think, given the high rates of cheating (as evidenced by the 8 ways to affair proof your mariage) in a marriage, that we, as a society, should begin to think of threesomes as a viable option in order to keep the spark in the marriage.
What are the pros and cons ? your opinions? your thoughts?
I think if a guy is gonna cheat, he would still cheat no matter what u offer him in marriage. They wil want whatever they dont/cant have.
And if one is so concerned about his hubby missing out something from the marriage he is in .. why not allow him to do a second marriage … to keep things in a proper way
Or the notion here is …. I don’t mind him bedding/bonking any one as along he is doing it with me /or in front of me … ?
and i Agree with X2 bhai ... why just three .. go n have an orgy ....
Equal rights for women ..... Right ... why should they be missing something ....
I don’t comprehend why people pretend to follow something .. let say a religion here and then they question and ponder about things clearly stated as taboo in that yoke …
Empty mind is a Devils workshop .. innit ?
Just wondering ..... is that the freedom of speech we should have on GS ?
Whats this? Life 1 is now the de facto Corner Room? This is just pushing it a bit too much and going into absolute inanity. May be its time to make a separate "khuwaar corner" in the unplugged area.
I will highly object on its placement in UnPlugged due to the fact that the sole foundation of UnPlugged is based on “No Profanity/No Vulgarity/No Nudity” premises-
Such a Khwaar Forum would be a total opposite of that moto:snooty:
Such things shouldn’t be allowed anywhere on GS! For those who bear allegiance to Islam, this is an abhorrent activity (and a grusome sin, come one! at least admit that this would be zina) , too abhorrent to even joke about (which is clearly not the case as the poster was being serious)
as for those not pertaining to Islam, well most decent folks would call this suggestion vulgar, unless they have a different set of standards to define it.
Such things shouldn't be allowed anywhere on GS! For those who bear allegiance to Islam, this is an abhorrent activity (and a grusome sin, come one! at least admit that this would be zina) , too abhorrent to even joke about (which is clearly not the case as the poster was being serious)
as for those not pertaining to Islam, well most decent folks would call this suggestion vulgar, unless they have a different set of standards to define it.
God! Are you guys married? if yes, than you are so besharam...how can you even talk about such a thing as a joke? You guys don't seem to have respect for yourself but atleast respect your spouse.
God! Are you guys married? if yes, than you are so besharam...how can you even talk about such a thing as a joke? You guys don't seem to have respect for yourself but atleast respect your spouse.
And if one is so concerned about his hubby missing out something from the marriage he is in .. why not allow him to do a second marriage … to keep things in a proper way
Or the notion here is …. I don’t mind him bedding/bonking any one as along he is doing it with me /or in front of me … ?
and i Agree with X2 bhai ... why just three .. go n have an orgy ....
Equal rights for women ..... Right ... why should they be missing something ....
I don’t comprehend why people pretend to follow something .. let say a religion here and then they question and ponder about things clearly stated as taboo in that yoke …
Empty mind is a Devils workshop .. innit ?
Just wondering ..... is that the freedom of speech we should have on GS ?
Last I checked there is nothing wrong with pondering and discussing.
Since I think the question was really asked in sincerity, here;s my 2 cents....
A threesome (or any other type of "adventure" sex is cheapening to both partners in the marriage. When its just "cheap sex" for adventure, think it would make the relationship deteriorate. Wives would very likely wonder if the hubby wanted the other one more. The hubby would very likely look at his wife with at least a little disgust for sluttiness. And once the door is opened - that more sexual partners are introduced into the marriage, its very easy to graduate to other things. Like "hey, I had sex with that other partner along with my spouse so its ok if I go have sex with just that other partner." Human nature yeah?
If its a sexual spark that you're looking to put back in your marriage, keep other people out of it! And go buy the Kama Sutra or read up on Lingam massage.
