Should we change ourselves to find a husband?

[Sara516]

Re: Should we change ourselves to find a husband?

@TLK

I quit smoking in order to marry my wife. Good or bad is just a perspective, but it was a huge change for me. I was smoking two packets in three days. Not to mention the change my wife brought in her for me, but that is a different story.

I made that change because to marry a wonderful person like my wife, that change was a no brainer. I knew guys who grew beard because the girl wanted it.

Guys please, put your ego aside. Just like good girls, good guys are also quite rare. Dont deny a good rishta because of something as small as Hijab.

But I don’t think tha’ts the same thing. smoking is a (bad) habit, not a set of values/beliefs.

something like beard/hijab = religious values/beliefs.