Should this be it?

[Sehrysh]

Re: Should this be it?

@ZareenKhan

Uh huh. This is where you are mistaken my friend

1. Sharafat is important because it means loyalty, stability and trust in your relationship. Which obviously would or atleast should weigh higher on the scale compared to the other things.

2. You can get married to this hunk who is very attractive to be with by what’s the use if at the end of the day he can’t be loyal with you?

But having said this i by no means am saying that if the guy or girl is shareef that’s all that should matter. I also think mental compaitability is of the utmost importance but i think even that wouldnt come without the spouse being shareef if that is of importance to you. I hope i am making some sense here :).

I was not discounting sharafat from the equation. As different as most of us are, it would be a rare person who said they didn’t want to marry a shareef person. Assuming the person is shareef, does that make it an automatic yes to the rishta, or should a person look for something more. Your second comment is my exact point - the compatibility of personalities and values is also important and needs to be considered in the rishta situation.