Should this be it?

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Should this be it?

@Sehrysh

I struggle with this answer. All of us hope that our potential mate is shareef and most people we come across genuinely are shareef, but shouldn’t there be something **more **that makes one rishta more acceptable than another? Times are changing and it’s no longer a matter of zindagi guzarnay waali baat, most people want to enjoy their lives with their partner. What if the guy is shareef and yet they have nothing in common from a personality perspective?

I dunno, it just makes me think that if sharafat was the only thing we’re looking for, then most guys and girls are interchangeable and kisi ki shaadi kisi sai bhi ho sakti hai :hinna:

Uh huh. This is where you are mistaken my friend

1. Sharafat is important because it means loyalty, stability and trust in your relationship. Which obviously would or atleast should weigh higher on the scale compared to the other things.

2. You can get married to this hunk who is very attractive to be with by what’s the use if at the end of the day he can’t be loyal with you?

But having said this i by no means am saying that if the guy or girl is shareef that’s all that should matter. I also think mental compaitability is of the utmost importance but i think even that wouldnt come without the spouse being shareef if that is of importance to you. I hope i am making some sense here :).