Should she get over it?

[lahorikudi]

Re: Should she get over it?

@nia_khan

I never understand why parents make their daughters get married at a young age… i mean let her finish school atleast… whats the rush…

urgh..
I promise you my munno is not getting married until he is in his early thirties.. i know boys take time to reach the maturity bar… URGH.. parents a nutcases sometimes…

my sister’s not super young, she’s 24. And the only reason these ppl were allowed over is because they wouldn’t take no for an answer. They were persistent and seemed like a compatible family at the time. The boy is 30…he should be mature enough at this point–I would hope.

@Demesne

^ this. I was going to say that you had asked for a call

But for your sister’s peace of mind, since she is having a hard time letting it go, have your mum consider calling his mum just for a “hey how are ya” and in doing so judge the tone and the situation while providing info that sis has gotten into XYZ med school

I wish, but I don’t think any amount of coaxing will work since my parents are sure at this pt that the guy’s family was shady for pushing commitment so fast ESPECIALLY without allowing us to background check. I’m just posting on here to see if anyone thinks this guy/family will even come back so I can try to prepare my sister.