Re: Should she get over it?
Red flag. A family who’s in a rush to secure a commitment - especially when their son isn’t financially independent - sounds shady. You’d think they were picking out a new futon, not considering a life-long decision. They’re not showing much sensitivity to the valid concerns of a potential wife and her father, either.
I was going to ask whether your sister sees any value in communicating with a guy to explore compatibility/attraction outside of his professional status, but that doesn’t seem to be a priority to him, even if it was to her. They’re treating this marriage business like most desis - a sterile transaction based on aligning people on paper.
Yes, too much pressure yaar. Being a man is so unfairly stressful. Who knew marriage entailed more than sunsets and sekshual adventures.
ps. If you’re still wondering, no they’re not interested. They may just be shopping around for an MD DIL who’s willing to sleep with and play wifey to their son without asking for a stable home in return.
Your sister should “get over it,” yes (though it’s unclear what there is to ‘get over’ since this doesn’t sound like a ‘relationship’).