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what are 14, 15 and 16?
16 singhars are for girls. But if u float that way you can do those for your 'man' :D
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
It’s not gay
I am anything but gay however i am also against guys who make zero effort.
I think men who just can’t be bothered to be sexy for the one they love are not in true love.
Besides any man can make love… but only the very best command it.
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
The question is very valid.
Both men and women do have responsibility of making sure the opposite member is still attractive to him or her.
One should not condemn, expect anyone and force that person to be continued to be attracted to his or her spouse while discounting the responsibility of the opposite member.
For example if the man works outside in the yard and be sweaty and does not take shower afterward, then he should not blame her not really feeling up to fulfill his other needs in bed.
On the other hand if she has not taken shower after all days work and has not used the perfume, then it may be unrealistic for her to expect he will feel really excited for her to be in bed with him.
Exceptions may occur but one should not be surprised if these exceptions do not occur.
yes a woman should maintain herself, however, not to the point that she feels depressed or unloved because she's gotten a gray hair or litlte bit of belly bulge (which comes naturally with age/children).
while there's nothing wrong in exercising and looking nice, I hardly think its fair to expect a woman in her 30s with children to look the same way she did as a teenager. Or a new mother to get back to her figure within weeks after giving birth (thanks Heidi!)
*The best women are those who are happy with themselves and enjoy every bit of their life :)
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Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
they dont find their wife sexy, husbands just are obligated to "keep" their wives. as in the state "neither love nor hate". its true, u cant change the reality.
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
aik admi ko us waqt upni biwi sexy ya watever lagti hai jub wo kinky kapray pehenti hai....... NAHI
us waqt jub wo uskay bachoun ka aur us ka khayal rakhti hai, khayal rakhnay mein sub kuch aa jata hai
jub lerki sara ghar sambhaalti hai to tab usko upni biwi sexy lagti hai....... zindagi normal chal rahi ho tab donoun ka pyar aik duusray say bharta hai.....
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
***amazing know, does she need to be sexy for her husband all her life? how could she maintain herself, her children, her body and baby fat, her husband dilema ?? amazing women that they are. what u say??***
Being "sexy" doesn't mean that a woman needs to try to look like a 20 year old when she's 40. Physical attraction is important whether you're 20 or 40 or 60. After a certain time in a relationship, a bond develops and that takes priority over "looking hot". But that doesn't mean that a woman should stop maintaining herself.
I know a few women who "gave up" on their looks. They don't exercise, don't watch what they eat, never put on makeup or do their hair or their nails, don't wear anything stylish etc. Just because a woman becomes a mother, that doesn't mean she stops being a wife. A mother should take care of her self physically not only for her husband but also for herself (ie. long term health) and for her kids. It's not the fact that a woman isn't losing the "baby fat" months or years after giving birth....I think the "problem" is that a lot of women don't even try! Motherhood doesn't make it ok for a woman to give up exercise and a sensible diet. In fact, having children should make those things even more of a priority b/c you want to live healthy as long as possible...especially since you have kids!
My SO has a few friends who complain to him that when their wife had a kid, the men lost their wife. The women have seem to have forgotten that their husband's still need them. I also know other couples who make it a priority to spend "alone" time with one another no matter what. I know one couple who has 3 kids...both the husband and wife work. She's in her late 30's....and obvioulsy doesn't look like what she did 3 kids ago. Well, every Friday night is their "date" night. Nothing fancy.....but both dress up and go out to dinner and sometimes movie. It's a time for them to connect as a couple without dealing with other distractions. They don't hang out with other people or go to any dawats on Friday nights (unless it the wedding of a family member or a CLOSE friend etc). Friday night is "their" night b/c they decided to make it so.
In addition, part of being sexy is also attitude. No matter what a woman looks like, if she doesn't feel confidant in herself, it shows.
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
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what are 14, 15 and 16?
Re: Should she be sexy hot for her husband. all her life !!
aik admi ko us waqt upni biwi sexy ya watever lagti hai jub wo kinky kapray pehenti hai....... NAHI
us waqt jub wo uskay bachoun ka aur us ka khayal rakhti hai, khayal rakhnay mein sub kuch aa jata hai
jub lerki sara ghar sambhaalti hai to tab usko upni biwi sexy lagti hai....... zindagi normal chal rahi ho tab donoun ka pyar aik duusray say bharta hai.....
i fully agree
i have always believed a guy or a girl truly finds his or her partner attractive or sexy as it is called because of their personality (aadatien, tabiyat, mizaaj) than looks