amazing know, does she need to be sexy for her husband all her life? how could she maintain herself, her children, her body and baby fat, her husband dilema ?? amazing women that they are. what u say??
she doesnt maintain herself forever..the love swtiches to more and deeper than the exterior over time..
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I don't think it's difficult to be sexy for your husband...all your life!!
Even if you are fat...or pregnant....or whatever.....wearing a nice sexy nightdress....makes you look sexy....
Husband accept their wives as they are....but if they wear or do something different (candle light dinner) their husband will find them very sexy....even living together for so many years...
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She can try :p
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Keeping yourself 'sexy' ain't the key to keeping your husband happy and won't stop a man straying (think Jennifer and Brad-need I say more?) it's about having a relationship that goes deeper than looks. When a woman becomes a mother her husband also becomes a father-their relationship changes dimensions that often increases the love.
Soni27 hit the nail on the head.
Namaan-are you married? If you are I think I need to have words with your better half!
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Hmmm interesting… i’m thinking why can’t a woman remain sexy for long time?
True age takes over and life begins to go awry after 50 or 60 but i have a long way to go if Allah is kind as he has been up to now… i accepted my wife without even taking a proper look and i found that after the wedding she is more beautifull than i have ever imagined possible.
I am unusual though in that i never found women who dress badly and reveal to much as “sexy”. I actually find a well dressed woman more apealing becuase she has to be very sophisticated if she can wear and even make such complicated dresses which are works of art in thier own right.
Likewise my wife loves my uniform… i dress casual as well but i am a man who prefers to wear long loose clothes or sophisticated suits…
Here we both find romance not in the way that is common these days… although my wife is very sweet i have always been appearing very rugged on th outside… but she is so well mannered and even quick to point out how my scars vanish when i smile becuase the muscles just flatten out my wounds and skin doesn’t apear dammaged anymore.
Sexiness isn’t just acheived by physical structure though dont get me wrong that counts a lot, attitude and manners are also important.
For me i have always had a different taste and perhaps the attitudes we value are dying out but i’d like to think not. 
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if a women shud try to be sexy for her husband for all her life despite all the other responsibilities she has... shudn't a man do the same??
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Offcourse… i agree.
As a husband i’m commited fully to making my wife happy whatever it takes…
I am glad i am blessed with an imagination and some sense…
Nothing massive is needed, no need to spend a fortune and make a undue fuss… all i reckon a man has to do is keep fit and strong… here stamina counts crucially.
Also work with little things and make use of lights and moods and decorations and try spice things up with introducing something new and exciting more often.
Yes.
She can try :p
Only if the man himself is sexy to begin with, and aspires to become Brad Pitt.
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^awwww
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I don't anymore. but if a women has time and energy why not.. but then again that's probably why my married life is soo extremely boring :(
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yes a woman should maintain herself, however, not to the point that she feels depressed or unloved because she's gotten a gray hair or litlte bit of belly bulge (which comes naturally with age/children).
while there's nothing wrong in exercising and looking nice, I hardly think its fair to expect a woman in her 30s with children to look the same way she did as a teenager. Or a new mother to get back to her figure within weeks after giving birth (thanks Heidi!)
The best women are those who are happy with themselves and enjoy every bit of their life :)
I am 20 and un married.. Alhumdulillah you inspire me ;).. My fiance and I were alhumdulillah brought up old school and we alhumdulillah value eachother’s hearts I’d like to think i’m from your clan 
Yes…she better try!
Anyhow, it is true with time more reasons to be attracted to each other develop but this physical attraction should not be completely forgotton.
Age itself has nothing to do with attraction, a sensible diet, exercise and neat clothings, grooming, does not take much time to keep the good intimate relation.
If nothing else at least take shower everyday and use deodorant, cologne or perfume! 
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You guys really should know your 16 singhaars!
spocky dude
you find brad pitt sexy ? 
(just pulling your leg)
You guys really should know your 16 singhaars!
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[li]muun dhona[/li][li]baal brush karna[/li][li]toothbrush karna[/li][li]nahana[/li][li]shave karna[/li][li]aftershave lagana[/li][li]deo lagana[/li][li]chest hair trim karna <--- one of hte controversial ones[/li][li]saaf underwear pehna roz[/li][li]nails trim karna[/li][LIST=1]
[li]nail fungus ko treat karna[/li][/ol]
[li]smelly feet dhona[/li][li]perfume chirakna[/li][li]kapray istri karna[/li][/LIST]
what are 14, 15 and 16?
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**Originally posted by Saadqureshi
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My clans huge so its not unlikely bhena… wish u all the best and may you have a long and happy life.
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Nice advice, i can think of my personall 14,15 and 16.
- Ensure hair is long and curly prefferably like a lions mane.
15.Ensure muscles resemble marble, so that my body is soft to the touch but keeps my partner cool andwarm when needed… and is solid and lasting as any rock. - Ensure beauty is not treated badly, love your partner… trust your partner… be your partner!
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uhh that's just gay dude.