yes a woman should maintain herself, however, not to the point that she feels depressed or unloved because she’s gotten a gray hair or litlte bit of belly bulge (which comes naturally with age/children).
while there’s nothing wrong in exercising and looking nice, I hardly think its fair to expect a woman in her 30s with children to look the same way she did as a teenager. Or a new mother to get back to her figure within weeks after giving birth (thanks Heidi!)
**The best women are those who are happy with themselves and enjoy every bit of their life 