Yup, I’m not really preoccupied with myself.
I don’t know what your saying other than that awkward feeling one get when you are being really looked at. I find that this only happens if you reciprocate (make eye contact or whatever) or are somewhere with a high concentration of desi’s (not excluding a few other cultures either), where they feel it’s fair game to look at you like they’ve never seen a woman before. Solution - don’t go to those places.