I think this is a verse that speaks for itself. Please show me evidence for only applying in that context.
Yours is a perfect example to be honest. You are modest in your dress. If you were to lower your gaze and not observe men looking at you, it would do a number of things - they wouldn’t be compelled to keep on looking; you wouldn’t know they were looking and therefore not be able to like it, removing your feelings of guilt.
As I said, wisdom in this verse beyond the apparent.
I think I said earlier on in a common sense way - if you are engrossed in your husband and children, you won’t notice other men looking.
Looking at men for halal dealings has come out of nowhere. That’s not what was being discussed here was it?