Re: Should i wait for love or have an arranged marriage?
maena
u have your requirements, now whether u meet that person on your own, or are introduced to him by a friend a some party, or by your parents at some community event, does it make a difference?
as far as your family goes, you should be open with them that just because someone meets all your prerequisites, does not mean u will find a connection, and on the other hand u actually may find a spark with someone who may not meet all of your prereqs.
i would suggest that if they ntroduce you to someone you are interested in, have some more meetings, get a chance to know the guy. I mean if u meet someone on your own u would need some time to get t know him anyways. dont go for something official until u have a good nuff feel.
its very simple actually.
Man, you always hit the right cord.
Maena: Like X2 said, sometimes you find the man with all your requirements but it just so happens you dont find yourself clicking with him as you thought you would.. on the contrary you end up clicking with someone who has the least of what you are looking. So, its upto you what would you want to choose that time, the man you clicked with or the requirements you were lookin for.. I would go with a man i clicked with =)