Should I trust him or am walking in to a future divorce?

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Re: Should I trust him or am walking in to a future divorce?

@GoriLady

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I’m asking not just any random people on the internet… I’m asking Pakistani people (I think). Because there is an element of cultural difference at play, I want to make sure I am seeing things from his cultural perspective before making too harsh of a judgement call. Though I know many Pakistanis here where I live, I cannot open up to them about this problem because that would involve airing my fiance’s family’s dirty laundry out in the community and that is not something which I want to do. I know that Pakistani’s are extremely private (ex. when my fiance goes to the mullah for advice, he calls in anonymously) and so I would only make them hate me even more if I started talking about them to their community members. Make sense?

Gorilady you seem to have so much good humour, faith and respect for your inlaws to be, you deserve a really, really nice guy and family-and if this one isnt ready to realize your worth then rest assured there will be others. And it will be his loss, not yours. Having said that, i hope everybody comes to their senses and ‘all is well’