Hey i have been stalking this forum for awhile so i registered cause i wanted to ask this 
So i have a rishta which we accepted.. Now my cousin is going to pakistan and asked me if i want to send anything to my bride to be.. I want to send something but i dont know what i can send that wont be look weird or give a wrong idea 
since we are not engaged etc
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Kama sutra book?
j/k j/k j/k
Where do you live? How well do you know her and her likes/dislikes?
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Well im from UK. Well i think i know her quite well i dont think she would mind but i dont know the state of mind of the parents
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European Chocolates, maybe some tops/sweater type stuff if she wears things like that, perfume, etc
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^ good suggestions, especially chocolate,
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Chocolate is the best!!!
Don't get her clothes - makes you look aunty'ish or that you've been sizing her up.
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Choclate, perfume, make up...
u can send her books (if she likes to read)
somethin smalls will work too :)
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chocolates, gadgets or jewelry.
Clothes are too risky. If you buy a size too large, she'll think you find her fat. A size too small = she'll think you're hinting that she should slim down. Trust me ;)
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I think chocolate is a good suggestion. Also, maybe something like a charm bracelet, or stud earrings, but not something to big or expensive, as you mentioned you havent had an engagement yet. Perfume is also a good idea.
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i dont know the state of mind of the parents
^ This is your main problem. If this is an arranged type situation, and you two are not officially engaged, then I would not take ANY risks at offending her parents. If her family is conservative, then the last thing you need right now is for there to be some type of "misunderstanding". So be 100% sure that her parents will NOT take offense at her receiving a gift from a guy who's not even her fiance. In addition, make sure you parents are aware that the gift is being sent.
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What is the status of your relationship, is it baat paaki? I think that is engaged?
I thought the England was known for its sweaters, so you can send that along with a good perfume.
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Send her a nice box of chocolate. I wouldn't send perfumes or clothing items yet.
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i think something for the mom to smooth matters over as well :P
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send her a box of chocolates and a blank journal........but write the first page for her.......ask her to document the trip from now until such time as you guys get married.......
or better yet...write the first entry and ask her to write hers' then have her mail it back to you for the next......will create an amazing documentation of your journey together through life.....
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oh ...and....send the sweater for the MIL......
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Just remember there is always a chance your bride-to-be will expect you to out do whatever present you send her now in the future. E.g. send a ring, you may need to dig deeper and buy the chooris next time.
Saw it happen to my uncle. Poor guy, literally.
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First ever gift I got from my husband was nice DKNY watch, which is quite nice and decent thing to give as a first ever present, So I think u should give her nice watch too.
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Send her a perfume, chocolate or handbag
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Chocolate, perfume, a book you love, maybe something sparkly...
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lol. send her vs classic pant and hoodie 
this red and soft dress will do magic on her
Velour Classic Pant - Victoria’s Secret
j/k
no, you can send her chocolates, and perfume. you dont need to spend money on precious stuff. your gifts will make her future expectation. abhi say daba kar rakho. :chai: