should i say sorry first?

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also, when i brought up that he said he doesn't care, he just ignored that too and he didn't even say i just said that b/c you were pissing me off he was just like "ok...now? i don't understand why i need to say sorry."

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he is a selfish person just ignore him......every thing will be fine .........its better to ignore him then tu suffer later ............he will do more if u say sorry to him u didnt do any thing wrong u love him and he knows that so he will exploit ur feelings .....if ur a strong person just avoid him and c wats the result.....!

People display their "nakhray" even more when you approach them. So, stop doing that. You say you've had enough...and then you contact him yet again...thus giving him the opportunity to put you down again. You're creating your own vicious cycle.... so you can't put all the blame on him. That said, quit it.

Okay, you've said "sorry" five times. You've more than done your part. Even if he were to only like you as a "friend" and nothing more than that.....a friend shouldn't be treating you like this. "He doesn't want space?" Well, he's not exactly chit-chatting with you either........so I would say give himself some space and YOURSELF a break. You say you've liked him for more than two years whereas his interest is more short-lived. Taking a break will allow you to evaluate the relationship; it's healthy. Have some self-respect as a woman, HB.

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^^^^^

The truteth has been spoketh.

LOL. It was being spoketh for quite some timeth.

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Thank you redvelvet :)

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omg honey, what did u do?? :eek:

Now even saying sorry can’t reverse the whole relation :@:

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umm neha what are you talking about?

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so it's been like 4 days, and he's not talked to me. Could this mean he really doesn't care?

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Wait another week or so. A good 10 days. If you get no response within the next 6 days, I am not gonna say I told you so. But I suggest you get a large tub of ice cream.

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What's the ice cream for? ..and tell me what? you didn't really say anything?

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Jeezus man! you are so obsessed, like stalkerishly obsessed. Let the guy be. Find yourself some other hobby.

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i know! it's kinda scary that i'm so obsessed with this person. I don't know how to not be this obsessed with him, (trust me before it was MUCH MORE).

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honeybee time to get over him kiddo :hugz:
itna ignore …forget it…he can live with tht attitude of his :snooty:

Leave him..if he was ever ur’s he will be back..else he wont…let it go…

Typical. That you blew your chance and screwed everything up.

The tub of ice cream is to help drown you tears.

And Jaanwar like always is right.

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HB..no need for an icecream.....jao frnds ke saath ghoomo phiro..family ke saath time spend karo....hv sleepovers with czns and frnds...and within no time u will be over him and will know ki it was foolish to even spend so much time over someone who doesn't even care.

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awwwwwwww man!!!

ur really like a kiddo, when someone says tub of ice cream the first thingy (as already described nicely by CM) wipe yar all tears of

leave him alone will ya, honestly, don’t u have anything else to do in life :konfused:

go shopping, go to a salon, spend time wid ya family, go to the tailor, injure urself n go to the doctor, try to make haandi, try playing a game on ur mobile then friggin txtin him, go through male oriented magazines :meeno:

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^ you know what I wish I could. I cannot have sleep overs b/c my parents will not let me. I do not work, there for I do not have money to go shopping/salon like everyday. I have my license but not a car... and besides I'm too scared to drive. and I'm not injuring myself for a guy, ok maybe I would, and drink a lot of sleeping pills or w/e but what's the point of it?
and thanks CM for the ice cream tip, i'll keep it in mind.

I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to be over him. I've been trying for a VERY long time. It just doesn't work.

I even started ignoring him, but he realized that and asked me if i was mad..why don't i wait for him after class...etc.. he considers me his best friend...well, i don't.

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so he cares…
and u dont consider ur frnd?
ufffff u arent making sense anymore:emmy:

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Bonafide Drama Queen.

Oh yes and Troll.