I am having issues with this guy friend of mine. Like me and him are VERY close and stuff and we’ve been through a lot together. Well, we got into an argument about something a day ago, (he was acting strange and thought something is wrong with me) and well before leaving he said " U know if u still wanna be angry then go ahead i don’t care" and then I said “yeah im sure u dont care and guess what i dont care either” and well, I really didn’t mean that. Then, today he asked me if i was mad so i told him “do you care…no, you don’t..so why are you asking me?” and then he was like “We’ll see how long you do this for. Have fun.” and then I replied “I’ll see how long I do this for too, and I’ll definitely have fun(:” and then he just logged out on me on facebook (the only way we can communicate right now is through facebook b/c we don’t see each other over the summer and stuff) so I get mad and delete him from my facebook. I really wish I hadn’t but he was indirectly saying I need him or something. (the thing is i like him, and well he knows that, well now he thinks i don’t b/c we had another argument 3 weeks ago…and the thing is before we never ever use to have arguments while now we have a whole lot (we’ve been friends for 3 yrs). also, i’ve liked him for around 2.5 yrs and he liked me for like a week and moved on and he did this like 2 times and he always comes to me when he needs me.)
I don’t know what to do, should I wait for him to say sorry (it was both our fault, but then he made me very angry when he said he doesn’t care and that’s why I didn’t say sorry).
to err is human, to forgive - divine.
That's my 2 cents on your situation.
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My advice would be that you focus on passing the 7th grade. Other things can wait.
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it doesnt sound like a big deal. say sorry first.
I am having issues with this guy friend of mine. Like me and him are VERY close and stuff and we've been through a lot together. Well, we got into an argument about something a day ago, (he was acting strange and thought something is wrong with me) and well before leaving he said " U know if u still wanna be angry then go ahead i don't care" and then I said "yeah im sure u dont care and guess what i dont care either" and well, I really didn't mean that. Then, today he asked me if i was mad so i told him "do you care...no, you don't..so why are you asking me?" and then he was like "We'll see how long you do this for. Have fun." and then I replied "I'll see how long I do this for too, and I'll definitely have fun(:" and then he just logged out on me on facebook (the only way we can communicate right now is through facebook b/c we don't see each other over the summer and stuff) so I get mad and delete him from my facebook. I really wish I hadn't but he was indirectly saying I need him or something. (the thing is i like him, and well he knows that, well now he thinks i don't b/c we had another argument 3 weeks ago...and the thing is before we never ever use to have arguments while now we have a whole lot (we've been friends for 3 yrs). also, i've liked him for around 2.5 yrs and he liked me for like a week and moved on and he did this like 2 times and he always comes to me when he needs me.) I don't know what to do, should I wait for him to say sorry (it was both our fault, but then he made me very angry when he said he doesn't care and that's why I didn't say sorry).
You have totally ruined it. Suicide seems to be the only way out.
My advice would be that you focus on passing the 7th grade. Other things can wait.
seems to be doing alright for 7th Grade. There are no z's for s's.
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Aww how cute . On a positive note , more peaceful days for you friend . . . yayyyyyyy
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don’t say sorry… act as u were doing in the first place, show him ur evil side!!!
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dont say sorry, if he knows you love him, he knows you'll come around. let him know hes wrong. if you really want the guy make him want you and value you.
the thing about coming to you when he needs you is wrong, its because you are too available to him. he is in a way using you. im sure you've been through alot together and hes a great friend to you but sometimes you just have to be a little stronger to give others a wake up call.
since i dont know the argument i cant say whether you should say sorry because it depends alot on the nature of fight. if u are clearly wrong then maybe you should.
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U guys are so mean.
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Seems like a very childish argument imo.
If you value his friendship then apologise and rebuild your friendship.
If you don't, then just leave things as they are and it is likely he will become a distant memory.
also, i've liked him for around 2.5 yrs and he liked me for like a week and moved on
that explains why he doesn't care :)
My advice would be that you focus on passing the 7th grade. Other things can wait.
I'm not in 7th grade.
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**dont talk to him for like 20-30 years … n if he tries to contact u … just ignore him …
re-analyze the situation after 30 years and see whether you have made the right decision or not …
or do wat @Jaanwar: has suggested
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there is a famous saying that sometimes saying sorry does not mean that you are wrong. sometimes, you say it because the relationship you share with the friend is way more important than the ego, attitude.
its all about how much he important to you. if he is, then contact him anyway .. you guys can talk about this issue once everything is cool down .. but right now all you need to do is to tlak to him
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dont talk to him for like 20-30 years ..... n if he tries to contact u ... just ignore him ...
re-analyze the situation after 30 years and see whether you have made the right decision or not ....
or do wat @ Janwaar has suggested
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you guys are no help.
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these guys just love to talk about their SIL/MIL and all that marriage crap .. .. :) .. .. ask some question related to marriage, or dissing parents, or dissing brown people .. the all would be there sharing their few cents .. .. some will even share a dollar .. .. :)
you guys are no help.
**yeah ... well sorry abt tht .........
you see .... how easy was it to say sorry ... instead of creating a new account n post a thread .......... **
its not easy to say sorry for others fault