this is what i said to him:
I just wanted to say sorry, because I won't be happy unless if I say sorry to you. Yes, I know I did get mad at you for absolutely no reason. I know that, and I am not going to act like you made me mad, because you didn't, I admit that. I guess I would of said sorry, but you said you don't care, which alone said a lot. Obviously you don't care if I say sorry or not either, but I do care if I say sorry or not to you. You also said, you'll see how long I keep acting this way with you, have fun. You indirectly just told me I "need" you or something along those lines, no I don't need you, and I NEVER did need you. I also don't want to end our friendship on a bad note, and I won't...I'm sorry... Bye(:
and he's like
umm ok, i dont understand y u had to delete me tho.... and im not sure what ur trying to say, could u be a little more frank and brief please?
Frank and brief.."I want to say I'm sorry b/c I value our friendship too much to end it over a silly argument. But since you said "I don't care" that makes me think you don't feel the same."
so i say ^ that to him, and well he was like i feel the same but remember you said you don't care either. then i said yeah, i did and b/c you said it first and i just thought the feeling should be mutual. so i add him again, and he totally ignored my friend request. and replies to me "ok"
Woman you are doing this all wrong. I must say being a kid was easier back in the 90s or 80s even. Didn’t have facebook anxiety back then
Listen here girl. The guy feels you are upset. So he asks if you are okay. You brush him off. Then he asks you the same thing the next day and you brush him off again. And you wonder why he is upset. Anyway then you proceed to get pissy and block or delete him off facebook.
I just realised how sad life is when people get deleted off facebooks for little arguments. That is essentially saying “**** off” I don’t want you around me.
And you expect him just to forgive you right away after all of this brushing off? Yeah would you be that accepting if he did the same to you? Obviously not.
Look in this case you are most definitely in the wrong. By your own words, he inquired about your well being not once but twice. Both times you brushed him off. Then you proceed to delete him out of your life and you don’t do anything wrong?
Honey if anything you need an attitude adjustment.
Be happy he is still talking to you.
Oh yes I highly doubt he deleted his facebook just because of you. Talk about being presumptuous.
I feel like such a bad person now. The fault was not completely mine though. He didn’t ask me what’s wrong. He was like ok fine don’t talk to me. and he did delete his fb… AND for your info i don’t think I need an attitude adjustment.
Look if you consider the guy a friend then act like a friend and talk to him about it. And do it in the cute womanly way - because trust me if you come in all logical and stuff the guy will stand his ground. You want to be your friend, use your womanly wiles.
I have only question for you. When he asked you if you were upset, were you upset about something?
this is what i said to him:
I just wanted to say sorry, because I won't be happy unless if I say sorry to you. Yes, I know I did get mad at you for absolutely no reason. I know that, and I am not going to act like you made me mad, because you didn't, I admit that. I guess I would of said sorry, but you said you don't care, which alone said a lot. Obviously you don't care if I say sorry or not either, but I do care if I say sorry or not to you. You also said, you'll see how long I keep acting this way with you, have fun. You indirectly just told me I "need" you or something along those lines, no I don't need you, and I NEVER did need you. I also don't want to end our friendship on a bad note, and I won't...I'm sorry... Bye(:
and he's like
umm ok, i dont understand y u had to delete me tho.... and im not sure what ur trying to say, could u be a little more frank and brief please?
LMAO!! oh that is such a brilliant reply to that message she sent.
I am not assuming anything. I am merely making comments on what information you provided. You were PMSing, you obviously were in a foul mood. He asked why and you gave him the cold shoulder. Which frankly since it was your "special time", is acceptable.
Just tell him that. That is your get out of jail free card.
"Just tell him that. That is your get out of jail free card."
no, i don't want to tell him that, it would be kinda weird.
"Look if you consider the guy a friend then act like a friend and talk to him about it. And do it in the cute womanly way - because trust me if you come in all logical and stuff the guy will stand his ground. You want to be your friend, use your womanly wiles."
honeybee apologize and tell him tht u r apologizing cuz his frndship means a lot more than silly fights…and let him do a lil nakhrey ..listen quietly…thora nakhrey uthaney mai koe harj nai …then wait for a day or two..he will come around and if he doesnt come around then forget abt him..cuz then he isnt worth ur time…
and wasnt ur to begin with .
Good luck
…then wait for a day or two..he will come around and if he doesnt come around then forget abt him..cuz then he isnt worth ur time…
