should i say sorry first?

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Re: should i say sorry first?

"its not easy to say sorry for others fault"

honestly, it wasn't my fault, and I always say sorry to him, but he never, ever says sorry to me for anything he does, even if it's his fault, b/c he thinks he's going to become a lower of a person if he does.

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to be honest.. ignore himmm for like a month or twooo...

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Well if your good friends as you make out - just say sorry - this whole thing seems a bit pointless since you argued about nothing really? it doesnt seem like a major argument so just say sorry - nothing to it!

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i m agree wid bellacullen ignor him for few days

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Well if your good friends as you make out - just say sorry - this whole thing seems a bit pointless since you argued about nothing really? it doesnt seem like a major argument so just say sorry - nothing to it!

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No, it's not a little argument. Why should I always say sorry first even when it's not my fault? I always say it, and now i feel like he's taking advantage of me.

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wait for sometime

let the tide go down a bit then see

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Is this a romantic situation? Are you in love?

Why would you get so worked up over a guy you're simply friends with? Friends dont bring so much stress with them...at least mine dont.

Try to talk to him, if he budges...great. If not, ignore him for a bit.

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yeah ... ignore him for few decades
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yeah, i guess i'll ignore him, seeing he doesn't care.

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Honey I don't think he does. u said he liekd u for a week and then went back to not liking you...twice....hes taking u for granted...if u ok with it then fine but if not then ignore him..its gna be hard but ti be ok

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^thanks(:

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Honeybee,

If you like him and you care about him, say sorry even if the feelings are not mutual.

After saying sorry, if you feel like he doesn't want to understand you or if he actually feels like he has won because you apologized then leave him.

To me, it seems like you like him, so say sorry, explain, if he really doesn't care then end it.

Be the nicer person even if it was not your fault.

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So what have you concluded - boys are icky and eww?

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Honeybee,

If you like him and you care about him, say sorry even if the feelings are not mutual.

After saying sorry, if you feel like he doesn't want to understand you or if he actually feels like he has won because you apologized then leave him.

To me, it seems like you like him, so say sorry, explain, if he really doesn't care then end it.

Be the nicer person even if it was not your fault.
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**I want to say sorry, but he thinks he can get away with anything. Like this one time he needed 120$ so I gave it to him (I know it was dumb), he siad he would give it back, but then we got into an argument. He told me he likes me, but then my best friend came in between (she hates him) and said something to him, and he indirectly told me he doesn't like me b/c he has to wear a mask of lies when with me. Then, I got mad and yelled at him, and then he ignored me for 3 days straight, like I would go up to him and he would pretend I''m not there. But then, I told him he can keep the 120$ ... Then after like a couple of days he said sorry and I was stupid enough to accept it. But then he told me he still likes this other girl he use to like... and i felt broken, but I was like fine with it, I guess.

Last week he told me, he started doing hookah 6 months ago (and he knows how much I hate people that do hookah, smoke, drink...etc...) and well whenever we use to talk he said he would NEVER do it, which was a huge lie. When I asked him why he lied to me his reply was I did not want to lose you, that's why I didn't tell you. He said he would never, ever do it again, and promised me. I don't even know if I should believe him or not, because he's gained a lot of new friends and I don't know if he's going to listen to them which is like 5 guys, or me.

Now this argument, it was a no purpose argument- we both started it. I was going to say sorry until he said he doesn't care about me, and said he's going to see how long I do this for, and to have fun. And my reaction was just like F*** this. Then, today he deleted his facebook (I think it was b/c of me). **

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So what have you concluded - boys are icky and eww?
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nope everyone is different.**

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Seems like he doesn't care about you. He does what he feels like without thinking about your feelings. He is ashamed of you. He still likes another girl.

He's a jerk and a selfish brat.

I guess you should end it.

But even after all of that, you still like him?

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Ah puppy love is there anything more sickening.

You apologize and make it up to him. That is what you do.

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^ and how, my brother, do you think she could do that? innocent face

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LMAO! That fact that you understand exactly what I meant is scary.... :D

Well if we are to be technical there are a lot of options. But since she has to pass the 7th grade we shall stick with the Disney stuff.

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LMAO! we do need the black power smiley thing on here.

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Well if you feel that strongly about him and still have him as a friend then just talk to him! If you've still stuck by him after him taking advantage of you then must still want to be friends with him so just talk to him and tell him how you feel? Worst thing will happen is that you might lose him as a friend if he doesn't understand but then if you do he must not have been an amazing decent friend?