should i say sorry first?

People display their “nakhray” even more when you approach them. So, stop doing that. You say you’ve had enough…and then you contact him yet again…thus giving him the opportunity to put you down again. You’re creating your own vicious cycle… so you can’t put all the blame on him. That said, quit it.

Okay, you’ve said “sorry” five times. You’ve more than done your part. Even if he were to only like you as a “friend” and nothing more than that…a friend shouldn’t be treating you like this. “He doesn’t want space?” Well, he’s not exactly chit-chatting with you either…so I would say give himself some space and YOURSELF a break. You say you’ve liked him for more than two years whereas his interest is more short-lived. Taking a break will allow you to evaluate the relationship; it’s healthy. Have some self-respect as a woman, HB.