Should I say something?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Should I say something too?

Please?

Blue b...

No? Ok :(

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lol i actually kinda agree with this.

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Meaning I can always count on you to make it all about women :rolleyes:

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you are more than welcome to clarify it....

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Nomi,
I don't know what she did to screw you up so bad and hate on womankind but some day, someone will take you back in her warm arms and make you a very happy man. There's hope for people even like you. Trust me my friend.

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she who?? :emmy:

and i don’t hate womankind…just asking questions…i love women really :smiley:

Thanks for your ‘warm’ wish really..appreciate it :hat:

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Because I'm someone who believes that Allah (swt) created women and men different! they're not alike physically or emotionally. Women like to share their woes and worries about their relationships and men like to maintain their 'nonchalant' manly aura and not speak about it... and that's why a midlife crisis ensues and they get a sports car.
Men are homophobic and they're afraid to even have eye-contact with each other in the bathroom while women like to share with their own kind.... even if it means tagging along with a friend to the bathroom and discussing personal problems while taking the piss (literally!!!) they'll TALK ABOUT IT!

We LIKE talking about how we feel. It DOES NOT mean we can't handle relationships.
AND we ARE DIFFERENT than men in that.
Take it and live with it.

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you see…thats such a nice and honest response…you can put it in the thread i created for this purpose..

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/491136-why-girls-cant-even-handle-friendships.html

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You realize you’re probably causing more harm than good on this site? Even neutral people get defensive after reading your comments.
Yes I do feel a bad breakup is behind all that hatred or your misplaced sense of loyalty towards defending all men without giving a thought to the fact that theres a slight possibility the guy could be wrong.

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LOL!

No CAN DO! SORRY!
I won't allow it. Like i said, I won't let the smuttiness of anyone's tongue mess up the sanctity of my Puritanic thread. I care way too much for it. Can you please not? Just this once?

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Were never wrong! Were perfect.

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what kind of ‘harm’ you talking about??

:omg:…naaah… its funny how you interpret it as ‘hatred’…what is so ‘hateful’ in asking the question??

again…in asking this question i didn’t defend men… and ‘misplaced loyalty towards defending a gender’…thats what guppans do :smiley:

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Great this is just perfect. Why are you GUYS ganging up on me.
All I do is share a genuine concern about a friend of mine and I get this.
not ever looking for advice here again.

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hold on a minute…

:sheen:

Just reflect on this a bit…

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Sure you like talking about it. Just not with the friend in question. You’d rather gossip about it behind their back with other friends. :hehe:

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oh men , how you mock us. Deny it all you want but you like this gossip just as much as we do. It’s why you guys are here. Exactly why!

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I wasn't looking for gossip. I had plenty of juicy ingredients to add if I wanted it to be juicy gossiping material. I said 'liberal' did i elaborate on it? When I could have said plenty.

It is a friend I cared about and wanted to get a different opinion on how I should deal with it. That's exactly what it was.
Think whatever you want.
Not letting this bother me so much. It'll just be circles with you guys.

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would it be fair if we took all that as you hating men??

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still reflecting and pondering

I’m sorry I’m a little slow and need people to spell things out to me. I fail to see the point of that post. What exactly am I supposed to reflect upon?

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sigh

You got me there. I admit defeat. Does that make you feel better?

Chalo. Bbye.