Re: Should I or should I not?
wonderz.........Please just stop here!
Ok so you are married.....but rukhsati has not happened....that is a huge difference!
Trust me I have seen cases around me and if you get out of it now it will be far easier for you in the future rather than doing this after rukhsati.
It is your life.....Many years from now it will only be you with him.....DRINKING is a big NO NO....specially when you do not do it yourself and do not accept it..
In Pakistan everyone who drinks really drinks hard and they just say they drink ocassionally (call it denial or whatever).
DO NOT MARRY A MAN WHO DRINKS.
As for not talking before marriage I understand that but this is GOD putting everything infront of you now....Do not be stupid.....trust your instincts.....do not jump into all this and ruin your life expecting that he or his parents will change....DO NOT!
I tell you from very close personal experiences so please just stop yourself here.
There should be no doubt in your mind at all.....I have not even touched on Lalach yet.