Ok friends, I am in a yet again confusing situation/dilemma. As I had mentioned in my previous thread, http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/552439-is-it-normal.html , there’s this guy whom i know for last 10 months & he brags to be the one serious to marry & usually taunts me for being non-serious. Anyhow. Before around 10 days, i felt some difference in his behaviour. I felt he was trying to ignore me even more. He wouldn’t really chat with me, & even if we would be chatting, after 2 mins of chatting, he would say he is tired & sleepy & would sign out right away. The same way that, when i would call him, most of the times he wouldn’t talk at all, saying he is at work, eating or sleeping :bummer:. He told me that the reason was he was busy at work as he has to make ends meet as he needs money. And also that he was frustrated because i wasn’t giving him a date as of when he can bring proposal to our home. So, being persuaded, i did give him a date for the first week of June.
So, taking the advices from you guys, one day i decided not to contact him whole day to see if he would contact me. But the whole day & evening went by & neither he called me nor he sent me any messages,etc. So i wrote to him that, since he could move on with this life without me, so we both should better finish off everything & he goes & lives his life his own way. Then he contacted me back, saying he wasn’t well & was hospitalized, etc :bummer:. And blamed me for not being understanding & told me that i should have better called him instead of sending text messages,etc.So it made me feel guilty & i apologized to him for not being understanding. But still i wondered that if he was hospitalized, couldn’t he drop me a message, informing me that!!! So, the next day, he told me that, he wants a break for some days. He said it is not breakup, as he is not breaking up with me but he wants a break for some days, as he said, who knows, because of this break, we both may become fonder for each other & our feelings may grow even more for each other :bummer:. Well, he insisting for break made me feel suspicious. I felt as if he was upto something, perhaps trying to know someone else!! So, i asked him that right away & it made him go mad & started blaming for being too shakky,etc, & after that he has just stopped all contacts with me. After that, i did send him many messages & emails & offline messages, but no reply. When i call him, no answer to my calls as well :(. So, i wrote him an email, saying that, i would wait to hear from him till Saturday. If i don’t get to hear from him, then i would have no other choice than to let him go!
What should i do? 
. It is not for first time that he has gone into vanishing mode like this. Before also he had done that, that he would be vanished for one week - 10 days & then came back, explaining how he wasn’t feeling well, etc! :bummer:
So, should i wait for him to come back? Or i should finally finish off things & move on? Does his asking for break says there’s something fishy? Does his vanishing say that, like a typical guy, he has ran away after getting the date?
I really appreciate the suggestions & advices you people give. So kindly help me regarding this situation again. please
Seriously? The guy owns his own business…Not even 24 hour goes by that he doesn’t contact you and you freak out?! Reading the rest of your post, even as a woman myself, I find your behavior extremely clingy and annoying. And guys have even less of a patience for such crap!
Starting today, for the next 3 WEEKS, do not contact him in any way. The last week of May, when you have an exact date and time where your parents are ready to meet with his parents…CALL him and ask him if that specific date/time is ok with his parents. Then go from there.