should I just confront her?

[geminifromkhi]

Re: should I just confront her?

@redvelvet

Nah… by making an empty threat…Op would be sending the message that such behavior is okay (even in retaliation). It’s like stooping to friend’s level in an empty threat. Why do that? Friend’s husband ratted her out…what can be worse than that? It depends on her intentions. If she did all this with the intent to hurt Op as opposed to helping her bridge the gap between her and your family…look at her own state now. Her own husband sold her out …imagine how much that knowledge would hurt…and he hinted she’s miserable in her own life. And depending on how things play out…she may lose Op as a friend. And if she was seeking validation from Op’s mom…she will maybe lose her mom as a friend too. She has already lost respect in Op’s eyes and maybe even her husband’s…and it’s even worse when your conscience kicks in and you wake up and lose respect for yourself as a person. Op don’t have to exact revenge from her…seems she’s already in a precarious position…a beaten down, haari hui bandi…and that’s a really sad place to be in.

Guess you are right
But btw I dont think she will get any lesson from all this…havent seen even one person change in my entire life.