Should I go back to my husband?

[Niksik]

Re: Should I go back to my husband?

@HEERANJHA

Despite what has gone on with me and him, I will always remain civil with him for the sake of the kids.

If I constantly bad mouth him and my in-laws to the kids I will look very bad in front of the kids.

I have never denied him visitation rights, he is their father at the end of the day and I don’t want their relationship to suffer just because we adults don’t get on.

So let’s say you get a divorce. Are your kids old enough to decide who they want to live with? Are you going to settle out of court of go through legal proceedings? You don’t have to answer if that’s too private.