Should I go back to my husband?

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Re: Should I go back to my husband?

@soundarya

In terms of a rishta… If you want to marry your kids into families that are open-minded and good, then they’re going to look past your marital status. I know of friends and cousins who married into good families in which the spouse’s parents were divorced.

This.

Also, I think it’s not a good idea to do a trial getting back together because if it doesn’t work out, it will be messy for the kids again. And who will be blamed? Given that you already feel some (misplaced) guilt. It seems like everything is pretty stable right now and you’re doing fine. If he marries again (which is unlikely), I doubt he’ll stop being part of the kid’s lives.