Re: Should i forget and talk to him?
This is not an azmaish…these are signs you’re ignoring. I feel like Allah swt is practically spelling it out for you but if you don’t want to see it, its your call.
It means a case that would prove my point is:
[http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/515862-dont-know-what-to-do.html
A](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/515862-dont-know-what-to-do.html)ll I am saying is, in my experience people don’t change. Its not normal for them to change their basic principles.
They might drop a bad habit or two for you (picking up his socks, leaving the toilet seat down, knowing which brands you prefer, etc) but do their personalities and mindsets change? No, not that I have ever seen. If he loves his mother so much that he feels the need to be unfair with you in order to be fair to her, his basic principles are messed up. And you, a new person in his life, cannot fix values that have been ingrained him for 25+ years.
This is who he is, like it or not.