Should i forget and talk to him?

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Re: Should i forget and talk to him?

@Aish

Can you tell him, I’ve discussed it with my parents and they want to keep my jewelry with them until I move in with you

Can you blame it on your parents and say you’ve tried your best to convince them or something?

Honestly, that’s such a cheap thing to get mad about. I’m sorry but your MIL sounds like a cheap cheap lady. Eugh. May Allah (SWT) give her hidayat

^Exactly. That’s what I had in mind as well. Make it seem like it’s the parents decision to keep it. Although I wouldn’t be surprised if he accuses her of turning her parents against his Amma. And then if the MIL doesn’t approach the parents…it does make you wonder about her intentions? Why become so adamant about this?

Or she can compromise and let MIL keep the jewelry that she’s given…and give her parents the jewelry they gave to her. That’s fair. But if he has problems with even that…something is just shady.