Should i forget and talk to him?

[rainbow1987]

Re: Should i forget and talk to him?

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SO he has talked to me but has not apologized just said leave everything that has happened … so its going normal just normal talks but there is still tension on both the sides

Well I am doing what my mum suggested and I feel its helping. Recite “yaa wadoodo” a lot and especially when you had an argument with MIL or/and hubby.

And I also told him he cant come close to me (physically) until he learns to respect me first.

Do you have any family in Germany? Because you have to keep in mind that your hubby will be the only person you can talk/turn to for a while, if not. German is a difficult language and you wont find many who speak English. And you wont find many desis there. I know a lot of people who felt/feel depressed/alone after moving to Germany (from Pakistan). And if your husband doesn’t change what will you do?Who is going to help you trough that phase?