Re: Should i forget and talk to him?
I agree with Iyla here. It’s true you might not be really competing or thinking like that. But subconsciously I think that you do fear competition or indirectly are trying to judge whom does your husband love more. This won’t make things better.
One can never stop loving their mother.
IMO a girl should try her best not to get to the situation where her husband has to decide b/w either of the two. In this case he is the only son. You yourself said that she has sympathies because of that.
Just put yourself in your husband’s shoes. Can you afford to break ties with your mother or even just hurt her?
You are his wife. You have a completely different place in his heart. His mother has her own. Don’t let this who gets over who screw everything up…IF you want to make this marriage work!