Re: Should I feel insecure?
Yes, they’re “older” than us and many but they’re not “old”. People 10 yrs older than my MIL and FIL are working hard still! My FIL stopped working at 49. My Dad is the same age as my FIL, I don’t think he’ll stop working anytime soon and my FIL is much much much healthier than my dad. Both MIL and FIL are very active, more than me! I’m not denying to help or let them stay with me, I just wanna do it in a dignified manner!
And I didn’t understand your question about affording two houses and other “things”. Like I said before, I don’t care about things. It’s just every little thing hurts when you’re degraded in your own husband’s house!!