Re: Should I feel insecure?
This made me laugh bcoz my FIL sometimes adds to the fire. Even if hubby would say something like ammi aaj nahi kal chalenge, FIL says “maa ko na karte ho, Allah ka khauf karo, maa baap ka rutba nahi jaante”. Like just yesterday, hubby had a issue with the insurance and he was calling them, they put him on hold so obviously he wasn’t talking but had the phone to his ears. MIL comes and tells him “mujhe ice-cream khila kar lao”. He’s like ammi rehne de main busy hun (obviously he was stressed with the insurance stuff) and she goes out of the room, tells FIL, FIL comes in and starts lecturing hubby “maa ka dil dukhane ka azaab pata hai na, Allah kabhi maaf nahi karega, etc etc etc” . This became a whole khutba on parents WHILE hubby was on hold. They could clearly see he’s on hold! So finally he hung up without talking to insurance and took her out for ice-cream! And when we we left, again in the car a whole khutba on maa baap. I guess hubby must’ve been really stressed coz he said “abb aa toh gaya hun abbu” (politely of course) and FIL replies “beta ek baar ki baat nahi hai hamesha hi aisa rawaiya rehna chahiye etc etc”…wth?!? Like my hubby doesn’t do enough already. I feel bad for my hubby sometimes, really! I wonder why he doesn’t feel for himself if not for me??