Should I feel insecure?

[Reha]

Re: Should I feel insecure?

@Monk

^I can believe you said that.

Monk, aap khud hi batao. How does a girl keep her home intact? How does she make it work and be happy? Tell me aside from living a life of misery and expecting apni sabr ka phal when she’s 60 yrs old, how is she supposed to keep her marriage alive? Leaving is not an option for everyone. For some women, it works. For some, no. To aise mein larki kya kare? The whole khoon ke ansoon peena is a sucky way to live and I don’t see the need for it.

@BusyBee

Yeah, I never have spoken to her firmly, ever! I had just gotten this advice from someone and just thought that even if I were to do this, it will only cause more drama. However, I have politely said to her things in the beginning like “ammi ji yeh to sahi baat nahi hai” just like I would tell my own mom and the drama started, to which my hubby later said stop saying stuff to her even politely and start ignoring it. I wish he was in my shoes to see how “easy” it’s to “ignore”.

Ammi ji ko nahin sunnay ki adat nahin hai…especially in front of her son. Please learn to fight fire with fire.

Marriage does not mean suffering all the time. WHY do people get married if that’s what it means? Insaan ko retirement ke baad agar apne shauhar ka pyar milega to vo kis kaam ka?