Should I feel insecure?

[queen_24]

Re: Should I feel insecure?

@BusyBee

What warning? If by warning you meant “divorce”. Then yes, I already brought it up. I said in a polite way that if you can’t handle your family and your wife then it’s better to marry someone who your family chooses and who can adjust to them. He said he loves me and all that crap first then when the argument proceeded, he said ok that’s fine, you can leave if you want, I can say anything to my parents, I can leave you for them. He tells me “why can’t you see I’m on your side” Like how am I supposed to see he’s on my side after all this he lets me go through and lets me get humiliated. Before he used to say if ammi says something wrong to you just tell her politely that ammi this is not right. After I did it a couple of times POLITELY, and MIL created drama, he now tells me to ignore everything and not say anything!

          And yes, I have talked to him many times. Laid out everything to him. Cried to him. He just hugs me and tells me "everything will be ok"......and next day again same sh*t, another day! I'm just drained emotionally, I feel like I'm getting played with my emotions. He says something and does something.

I guess you have over-assured him of your true love and thats what he is making most of. I’m sorry and I know its a tough decision but I think, you shall go and live at your mom’s place for a month and see his reaction. If he truly loves you, he will get you back, if he doesnt… he is not who you deserve!! Go and find a man who can respect and you treat you the way you deserve! Dont ruin your life over someone who doesn’t even deserve it!!