Should I feel insecure?

[Reha]

Re: Should I feel insecure?

@BusyBee

And so I thought! But h*ll has broken loose numerous times and continues to do so! She cries, shouts, etc. Brings out the quran to show him how parents k baare mein kya likha hai, etc. So much drama!!! He’s so obedient to them and still they cause so much drama, imagine if he says no to something they say. Yeah they stay with me, but they don’t talk to me. Only tell me to serve khaana or do this chore or the other. Other than that, no communication, only random taaney they blurt out towards me but say it among themselves.
I have to take her everywhere, even if I go out to throw the garbage. Even if I’m going to a friends or even my dr.'s appointment or anywhere, she wants to come. If I make a new friend, she wants their phone number in her phone, even if she’s met them or not!! She has many times called my friends behind my back and spoken ill about me in a polite way…I don’t know how to explain. Like she’s told me bad about me but said it in a nicer or pity tone so they believe her. Of course my friends told me!! She has done so in the community as well. Now, even the aunties that used to praise me have become distant and I can notice a difference. Like, I don’t know what she wants from me!!!

I’ll be honest…I know exactly what I’d do in a situation like that. But others are more wise and can advise you better than I.

You and your husband have spoiled her much like people spoil kids and then complain about their bratty behavior later.

If you love your husband and want a future with THIS man, you will have to learn to either live with them or fight back. By fighting back, I don’t mean a storm in your house everyday either. It means you learn to beat her at her own games.